So, it turns out that we received a mixed up story about the family whose house is being paid for by Hope Charities. Not surprising since it traveled so far and through several languages.
The story I have now is certainly not the entire story. Family histories are as complicated here in India as they are at home. Marriages, divorces, alcoholism, abuse knows no bounds. Even modern slavery enters the picture here. Hope Charities does what it can to help people directly. There are few administration costs.
There is a grandmother (69) and 3 young women (20's). Two are her daughters and one is a daughter-in-law.
We are building the house for one daughter, her husband and her 2 children.
Several people have asked whether the woman above is pregnant. Apparently, after her last pregnancy, she almost died because of some sort of serious liver condition. She is being treated at the Hope clinic and I will check with the doctor when I have a chance.
Her husband is a carpenter's assistant. I was surprised to see that he has a cell phone. I asked and was told that these days it is essential to have a cell phone to be able to get work.
The grandmother lives in a house next door with the daughter-in-law and her daughter. The son left his wife and daughter. The grandmother has taken them in.
5 years ago, the other daughter got an opportunity to work in Bahrain as a domestic worker. She contracted with a woman in Kochi and was sent there. Upon arrival, she was told that she was to be a prostitute instead. She refused but had to pay the woman in Kochi back plus pay for her own return. From Bahrain, she called Daisy in America and asked for her help. Daisy requested the Kochi bank information to transfer the funds to. With this information the woman who arranged for the trip was arrested and ticket was purchased for her by a man from this neighborhood living and working in Bahrain. All within 10 days. She now lives with her husband (who is a bus conductor) and her daughter next door.
The story I have now is certainly not the entire story. Family histories are as complicated here in India as they are at home. Marriages, divorces, alcoholism, abuse knows no bounds. Even modern slavery enters the picture here. Hope Charities does what it can to help people directly. There are few administration costs.
There is a grandmother (69) and 3 young women (20's). Two are her daughters and one is a daughter-in-law.
Current house left, new house right.
Her husband is a carpenter's assistant. I was surprised to see that he has a cell phone. I asked and was told that these days it is essential to have a cell phone to be able to get work.
Entrance to current house.
Inside of the current house. Only one room.
Grandmother's kitchen. Wood stove is for cooking.
Propane stove is only used for boiling water for tea.
5 years ago, the other daughter got an opportunity to work in Bahrain as a domestic worker. She contracted with a woman in Kochi and was sent there. Upon arrival, she was told that she was to be a prostitute instead. She refused but had to pay the woman in Kochi back plus pay for her own return. From Bahrain, she called Daisy in America and asked for her help. Daisy requested the Kochi bank information to transfer the funds to. With this information the woman who arranged for the trip was arrested and ticket was purchased for her by a man from this neighborhood living and working in Bahrain. All within 10 days. She now lives with her husband (who is a bus conductor) and her daughter next door.
Grandmother and daughter in front of their well.
very sad situation. It is good that hope charities and the RHS group can do a little bit to help them.It is amazing that they are smiling for the pictures. Hard to believe and imagine how people actually live this way and glad that our kids can make a small difference in their lives.
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Amazing experiences in so many ways, really appreciate being kept up to date on all the varied activities you are all getting to be a part of; thanks for being such great bloggers! You are experiencing a culture that has included Elephants in their daily life through history, and here in Portland Rose-Tu gave birth to her calf on Friday, she weighed 300 lbs at birth and is yet to be named. Its very heartening that you can be a help to this family in need, and tremendous reminder firsthand of all our gifts here at home, of course. Love the pics and stories; KEEP 'EM COMIN'! Perry Hendin
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